Info that we have got ready today.  We have to prepare for all possible outcomes, which range from me running a marathon next year, to disability or death.  Very difficult, but we have remained pragmatic.   I am getting ready for what could happen.  Underneath it all, I am delighted that they are removing the tumour quickly - let's get it out!

So, I have a growing list of questions for the support nurse.  Most are about the probably loss of speech and communication skills following the operation.  What communication support do they provide?

Can I take M and K on an orientation, so that they can see where I am going?

I have found some key papers eg my will.

I have written a living will - in short - if I am not going to recover, let me go.

My friend Gee is looking at a power of attourney document to make sure Dave has legal powers to make decisions for me, if I am not able to prove that I am of sound mind!  If you cannot talk, you cannot prove your sanity.

I have returned my driving licence - I am not allowed to drive.  I haven't been driving since I crashed into a bus about two months ago - I worked that out for myself before the double vision came!

We also had a little trip to John Lewis, but returned, realising that a trip to the Trafford Centre, in the rain at Sunday lunchtime was daft.  It was a nice little drive.

any tips are very welcome ...